Work With Me

Deep, embodied work for individuals and couples ready for real change.

You don't have to soften the truth to stay close.
Build an honest relationship with what's here —
your body, your sex, your desires, your fears —
and let that honesty be what connects you, not what threatens it.

How the work works

This is living, embodied work.

We start with what is actually happening now: in your body, in your emotions, in your desire, and in the patterns that keep repeating in your relationships. From there, we slow things down enough to listen, tell the truth, and make room for something new.

Notice what's here.

We pay attention to the signals that are already present instead of bypassing them.

Work with it directly.

We work in real time with sensation, emotion, conflict, shutdown, longing, and truth.

Create real change.

Over time, that builds more capacity for intimacy, honesty, regulation, and aliveness.

Common reasons people reach out

People usually find me mid-transition, mid-ache, or mid-loop —

inside a pattern in sex, conflict, or shutdown that keeps repeating. This work meets you there.

Life transitions

  • Starting over after a breakup or divorce, and wanting more clarity and self-trust this time
  • Mismatched desire, and needing to navigate it without blame
  • Wanting to feel more at home in your body and your sexuality
  • Not wanting to repeat old patterns in the next relationship

Sex, intimacy, and relationship stuck points

  • Sex that carries anxiety, shutdown, pressure, or shame
  • A relationship stuck sexually, emotionally, or both
  • Sexual trauma still shaping what feels possible
  • The same fight, on repeat, hardening into distance

Ways to Work with Me

There are a few different ways we can do this work together, depending on what kind of support you need and how deeply you want to go.

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Individual Work

1:1 Coaching

Deep, individualized support to shift patterns, regulate your nervous system, and come home to your truth, your body, and your desire.

We work directly with what's alive in your system, not just what you think or understand, but what you feel, how you move, how you relate.

  • Personalized sessions tailored to your nervous system and goals
  • Somatic and relational approaches integrated throughout
  • Work with intimacy, desire, emotional patterns, and more

Individual work is offered in packages, starting with a 3-session Opening Arc — not single sessions. We'll talk through what fits on your free call.

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Relational Work

Couples Work

Real-time relational work to navigate conflict, disconnection, or a desire to deepen intimacy and create a relationship that feels alive and honest.

We work with what's actually happening between you, the patterns, the tension, the places you go quiet or reactive, and find a new way through.

  • Communication, conflict, and emotional reactivity
  • Intimacy, desire, and sexual connection
  • Trust, honesty, and deeper vulnerability

Couples work is offered in packages, starting with a 3-session Opening Arc — one solo session for each partner, then one joint session together. We'll talk through what fits on your free call.

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Immersive Experience

In-Person Intensives

Immersive, multi-day experiences for deeper breakthroughs, integration, transformation, and realignment.

When you're ready for a depth of work that can't happen in an hour a week, intensives offer sustained time and space to go further.

  • Available for individuals and couples
  • Held in the beautiful Asheville NC area or in your location by arrangement.
  • Gorgeous lodging, optional massage, and access to Western North Carolina's pristine waterfalls and nature sites
  • Custom-designed for your specific intentions

We typically begin with online sessions to build a foundation, so your time in person goes further. Intensives start at $2,500, with full scope confirmed on your free call.

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Not sure where to start?

Reach out and we'll figure it out together.
There's no wrong place to begin.

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